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Were you married to a powerful husband?
What is a powerful husband? One who has professional power and position, who has money and who commands respect from those below him.
Others may be jealous of your money and position. They may think you have it all. And, even though you are divorced,
they may think you still have it made. But, you know differently.
You may not know what is different, but you know there is something lacking, something missing about how you feel about yourself.
You wonder why you don’t feel great about yourself. Why your self-esteem isn’t glowing. Why your public self imagine doesn’t match your private one.
If the divorce left you with less money, you have to adjust to a different life style. And what’s worse, you know some people have no sympathy, and are even be glad to see you “come down.”
What’s Different Now?
You feel baffled and betrayed. You did all the right things to help him grow in his profession. You put your professional aspirations and personal needs aside for the greater good – his advancement. You came up in the ranks with him.
Better yet, you know he came up in the ranks because of you. You made his life easier so he didn’t have to worry about the children, household, parents, in-laws. You made excuses when he had to miss family events. You did it willingly because it was helping him advance. You expected your rewards would come later; when he retired you would be together more and travel more.
Only, what came later was divorce. It’s like training for the Olympics but being pulled out before it starts.
What Have You Lost?
You not only lost your husband but also your identity and role as the wife of a powerful man. You lost your
position of cheerleader and your role as the woman behind the man. You lost the status that came from being at
the head table as he won awards and promotions. You lost your own voice, having spoken for so long from
his voice, his company’s voice, or the voice of “his wife.”
Relief is at Hand
Even if you have been divorced for a while, you may still be carrying the pangs and pains. Many women believe they will always feel this anger and resentment.
Not true. The process of healing and moving on for women divorced from powerful men is more complex than for other divorced women.
That’s why I’m offering a free teleseminar. (That’s like a conference call.) In this 1 ½ hours, you have the privacy of the telephone and company of others who are going through the same things as you.
Some topics we might cover are:
- why divorce is more agonizing for you
- what you lost in the divorce (besides money and things)
- what you need in order to feel emotionally free from him
- how to develop your own voice
- how to choose friends who do not recycle your anger
- how to create your own dreams (no, you’re not too old)
And lots more. Come join us and bring your own questions.
When is the Teleseminar?
Contact me to help schedule the next teleseminar.
How do I join in?
Fill out this form and click the Submit button.
You’ll get an email giving you the phone number to call.
Then, on the 2nd at 8:00 (east coast), you dial it.
NOTE: Don’t worry if you can not make it that night. Just
send me an email.
I’ll arrange for you to get a copy of the discussion.
That’s it! It’s that simple:
You dial. We talk. You feel better. You have more direction.
And it’s all for free.
I look forward to talking with you then,
Karen
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